Love is giving someone the ability to hurt you but trusting them enough not to...
Love is a sweet, wonderful yet heart breaking feeling...although love hurts most of the time....humans are forever chasing it....why did god create love in the first place? once created then why must he allow others to break it?
last night was chatting on msn with my bro...basically i was asking him...how could a man tell others how much he love his wife or gf and yet hold another woman outside....isnt this contradicting? the reply i got from my bro was....all men cheat...i find this really a sad case....how could a man hurt the woman whom he say he loves so badly....isnt he suppose to bring happiness to her instead? i just couldnt figure it out....
sometimes i feel...being in a relationship is so so tiring....initial stage is the honeymoon period....everything also sweet...slowly follow by quarrels and arguements...follow by suspect and doubting....cold war....and lastly have to worry about the love sparks fading off....everybody go thru this i'm sure...is love really that simple? or did humans made it complicated...
i deeply believe there is no perfect couple in this world...to put 2 different people together and live a lifetime needs alot of compromise....give and take....couples who dont quarrel might not be a good thing...afterall...quarrels are suppose to let both of you know each other better.....or rather....some says its the spice to keep a relationship going haha....insulting...if both of you can communicate properly..then why need to argue and cause tears and heart break.
i love to have a man who loves me....i love to have the attention from the man i loved too....but will it last? no one knows....love just hurts~
last night was chatting on msn with my bro...basically i was asking him...how could a man tell others how much he love his wife or gf and yet hold another woman outside....isnt this contradicting? the reply i got from my bro was....all men cheat...i find this really a sad case....how could a man hurt the woman whom he say he loves so badly....isnt he suppose to bring happiness to her instead? i just couldnt figure it out....
sometimes i feel...being in a relationship is so so tiring....initial stage is the honeymoon period....everything also sweet...slowly follow by quarrels and arguements...follow by suspect and doubting....cold war....and lastly have to worry about the love sparks fading off....everybody go thru this i'm sure...is love really that simple? or did humans made it complicated...
i deeply believe there is no perfect couple in this world...to put 2 different people together and live a lifetime needs alot of compromise....give and take....couples who dont quarrel might not be a good thing...afterall...quarrels are suppose to let both of you know each other better.....or rather....some says its the spice to keep a relationship going haha....insulting...if both of you can communicate properly..then why need to argue and cause tears and heart break.
i love to have a man who loves me....i love to have the attention from the man i loved too....but will it last? no one knows....love just hurts~
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