friendship

what is your definition on "friend"?

often i find this word "friend" being badly abuse...you can call someone your friend when you have know that person for years or maybe even a few hours...isnt friend suppose to be those kind whom can stick with you thru thick and thin...share happiness and unhappiness with you etc....why are we even calling those hi and bye people our friends?

i'm someone who love to socialise...i have many friends...including those whom i can really talk to...hi and bye kind...even those whom i hardly even remember who they are....

i do not have a best friend...neither do i believe in one....i have my fair share of betrayal when i decided to trust someone....i guess true friends dont really exist in this world....

the saddest part of a human life...is when you cant trust anybody....i deeply believe i'm someone who is not fated to have a human as a friend....perhaps its my character....not much people can stand my straight forward attitude hahaha....whenever i'm trying to be straight and pass certain message to anybody...they will feel i'm being crude or worse....thought i'm stirring shit...but i'm seriously not....i hate having to be cautious on how i speak and act...i hate having to act as miss nice...i hate having to think carefully before i talk....why do we have to go thru so much trouble just to talk? i do understand certain things can really hurt if we just come straight with it...but all along i thought that kinda behaviour is only use on people we are not really familiar with....why is it that i have to use this fake acts towards my friends? its just so damn tiring....having to be wary of people around me...having to be wary of how my words are gonna affect them...sad isnt it?

i do envy people who does have their best friend with them....my definition of "friend" are someone whom we can be with in our real self....someone whom i dont have to act to....someone who will not judge me for my mistakes...someone whom i can really fall back on...but is there such a someone that exist? i guess i've gave up trying to find one...cos when i found one and started to put my trust in her....things just happen....betrayal just slit my heart like a knife....it hurts....or maybe its just my judgement....failure to recognise who are the true friends....

puppy mill

for those who have take notice of recent news will know abt the 75 dogs rescued from the puppy mill in pasir ris, singapore....i do really hope people who are looking to buy any puppies from the farm or pet shop to stop awhile and read up on puppy mill before they make any decision....puppy mill doesn't just exist in other countries...it happen right in our own country too...look at the condition the puppies parents are in and you will see how heart breaking it is....being bred over and over and over again just for humans own selfish acts....making profits out of them without sparing a thought for their health and living conditions...

currently the 75 dogs are all treated at the vet for their health...they will be put up for adoption soon once the vet gives a green light to their checkup....you can help too....whether its giving a donation, helping to adopt, helping to foster or even helping to spread the words....

the below pics you are looking at now is taken from the puppy mill....are you are you can pretend you've never seen this pic before and continue supporting those pet shops and farms? are you sure you are still going to ask "how much is that doggie in the window?" are you sure you are going to be oblivious about your puppy parentage?








you definitely can help create awareness...by telling people about puppy mills, by advising them to adopt instead of buy....no doubt puppies are adorable....but by buying from unlicensed breeders you are also helping them to deprive the others on their right to live....buy a puppy from a pet store, and you'd sentenced his parents to a lifetime imprisonment behind bars at the puppy mill....not forgetting too the chances of a shelter dog being rehome again is getting lesser by one....

click on this link http://dogmilllrehomers.blogspot.com/2010/04/dogmillrehomers-help-save-75-dogs.html to read more about them....should you wish to make any donation....pls kindly double check and confirm before you transfer any money over...their official email address is dogmillrehomers@hotmail.com

if you are interested in adopting or foster any one of the dogs...pls kindly call Derrick at 83833714 or text 9622 3027...do note that there are NO PUPPIES up for adoption....all the dogs there are "used" dogs, many have been traumatized or hurt, are sick and in need of a lot of nursing/nurture/care....advance appointment have to be made before you can go visit the dogs too....


REMEMBER: This is the ugly industry that you will be supporting if you purchase a puppy from the petshop.



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overwhelming triedness

have been out these few nights with my kakis bcos one of my oversea friend is here in singapore...basically every night drinking session haha....its been ages since i last drank and seriously my limit for holding liquor is getting lower and lower...suppose to go out tonight again to mustafa with them but im really too tired to go anywhere...somemore they are meeting real late....decide to have a good rest tonight....he will be going back to hong kong on wednesday so prolly tml i will meet up with them again to bring him out....will be resting early tonight im sure...need to replenish my beauty sleep lolz